How to make your husband feel like you love him

You dreamed of meeting that special man all of your life. You pictured how you would feel and how great it would be to say those three magical words, I love you. Yet, now that the time has come, you are scared.

Some of those fears and nervousness could be from the fear of rejection but some also has to do with the fact that your might feel like it needs to be really special and memorable.

First, relax. Remember this is your life and not a television show or a romantic movie. Fireworks will not automatically explode after you say these special words, I love you. Your man is not even expecting it.

What is he expecting?

Romance? Fun? For you to be yourself?

If you can have a guess as to what impresses your partner the most, you can spin off some ideas from that.

Idea Number one on saying I love you

Go the traditional route. Plan a wonderful meal. If you are a good to exceptional cook, you can do the work yourself. If you can’t cook, buy the food all ready prepared for you. Be sure to set the table in a romantic way. Bring out the candles and your best china. Now play some soft background music. Allow the mood to linger and then when the time is right look into his soulful eyes and say I love you.

Idea Number two on saying I love you

Do you and your man have a special spot that you share? It could be the place you met or where you went on your first date. This special place could even be an amusement park or where your favorite team plays.

Ideally, you should go to that special place together and spend some on one time with each other. You will get the feel of when the right time comes. Take the opportunity and tell him.

Third idea

Wait until the end of the next perfect date with your man. Kiss him goodnight. Make sure it is a long, steamy kiss. As you linger, still standing within his arms look at him in the eyes and say I love you.

Fourth idea

If you feel that saying “I love you” straight out is too much for you, there are a few subtle approaches.

Try sending him a gift. Something romantic. Flowers will do just fine and you could send them to his work to make him feel special. Then attach a small note to tell him how you feel.

Some people feel that gifts are simply too much. You could go even more low key and send an e-card. Pick one from the thousands on the internet, something he would like and also says the words “i love you” on it.

Eventually you are going to have to tell him that you love him. It can be a very freeing experience and could lead to a much brighter relationship.